Call it What it Is

I recently read a little book by Jay Adams on the Christian Home.  I want to share a summary of the first chapter.  I found it simply profound & profoundly simple.
He compares a Christian home with a non-Christian home.  Every one has problems & issues that they are daily facing.  They may have the same exact struggles & problems.  The difference is what is done about the problems.
Christians must admit their sins.  Call them what they are.
If we believe the Bible, we know that no one is perfect!  I am not.  You are not.  Your spouse is not.  Your kids are not.  We are all sinners.  Don't let it shock you.  Admit to it.  And call it what it is.
Don't try to just brush off a harsh word as, "I was having a hard day."
 "I was just tired, that's why I ignored you & your needs."
 "If you had been nicer, I would've been nicer, too."
"I love you, so it shouldn't matter to you if I did something hurtful; I try my best."
If we make excuses, shift blame & re-name our sin (to somehow sound pleasant), then where is the hope?
Expect there to be sin; in your own life, and in the lives of others.  No one is perfect.
If we can identify the problem as sin, then there is good news!
Jesus Came to Save Sinners
Confess it as sin.  He died to pay the penalty.  And He lives again in victory.  He saved you from your sin & He is saving you from you sins.  Because of Jesus, you have hope.  You don't have to dwell in your live of sin.  He gives victory.  If the Spirit of God is working in you, then He will give you the grace & power to live rightly.  Never perfectly in this life.  But, there will be a progression in righteousness.

He sums up the chapter saying, "The Christian home, then, is a place where sinful persons face the problems of a sinful world.  Yet, they face them together with God and His resources, which are all centered in Christ.  Sinners live in the Christian home, but the sinless Savior lives there too.  That is what makes the difference!"

Our Family History of Baby Carriers

What's new?  Not baby carriers like this one.  They've been around.  

If a parent of teenagers tries to tell you, "You have it so easy now, with these baby carriers & such.  We didn't have stuff like that when my kids were young."  Don't believe them.

Me & Moira 2009

Me cozy & carried by my Momma back in 1980.

My mom made this one.  She did an amazing job with all the buckles & padding & stuff.  It is way more complex than the ones I make now.  The lining fabric is tiny strawberry print.  So cute.  The main fabric is a burgundy corduroy.

I think the brand name type that was similar to this styling was called the Snugli.

Scott on his dad's back - 1976.  

Yep.  Way back then.  They had baby carriers.  And, this one looks nearly identical to the style I use & make now--the Mei Tai Carrier.

Middle Eastern Flavors - Salad

This is a salad we created last week for the Passover Seder meal we attended.  We tried to do something with a Middle Eastern flair.
When I say we, that is because Scott created the dressing in his head, told me about it & I created it for real.

Middle East Inspired Spinach Salad with Creamy Dressing

Creamy Spiced Yogurt Dressing

1 cup Plain Yogurt

3 Tablespoons Olive Oil

1 1/2 Tablespoons Lemon Juice

Splash of Vinegar (Use something subtle; I used champagne vinegar.)

1 teaspoon Salt

1/2 teaspoon Black Pepper

1/2 teaspoon Dry Mustard

3/4 teaspoon Turmeric

1/2 teaspoon Cumin

1 clove crushed Garlic

Pretty much just whisk all this stuff together in a bowl until well combined.  If it is a little too think, add some more Olive Oil & Lemon Juice &/or Vinegar.

Taste & adjust seasoning, if necessary.  (The We comes into play here, too.  Scott does the tasting & advising as to whether it is good or not.  I am not a taste tester.)

Salad Ingredient Ideas

Spinach (my main green in this salad.
I mixed in other salad greens that I happened to have, too, though)

Sauteed Asparagus

Cherry Tomatoes

Celery

Carrots

Sunflower Seeds

Pine Nuts

Feta Cheese

Olives

Red Onions

Roasted Bell Peppers

Throw it in a bowl & eat it!

For another good salad this week, check out Nini's Recipe Rodeo .

Amy Butler's Comfy Baby Jumper Dress Review

I just completely finished sewing the Comfy Jumper Dress  - out of Little Stitches for Little Ones by Amy Butler.  This is my experience & review of the pattern.  (I hope it's okay to review a pattern that you didn't read all the way...)

I love the way this dress turned out.  It looks really plain & simple in the photos in the book.  But, it has more detailing than I expected.  And there are pros and cons to that!
Don't think that the dress is hard.  It is not.  But, the thing that I found challenging was that some of the little details, that make the dress really cute, weren't shown in any photos or sketches throughout the pattern.  So, I had a hard time understanding them.

Like I said, I didn't read the pattern throughly.  Some parts I just kinda glanced over, cuz I figured I knew what to do.  Some parts I read & read & re-read, and didn't get it.  Here's my experience.

First -
I didn't follow the direction to line the interior with muslin.  I lined the interior in such a way to make the dress reversible.  This is the inside of the dress.  

In the sewing of the bodice, I faced much confusion.  The book has no frontal photos.  So, you don't see this cute little slit neck.  I had never done a neckline like this & was so afraid to go forward with it.  I couldn't fully picture it in my mind.  It was only because of the courage that my friend Tina (of Paisley & Lace) gave me, that I could go forward with the making the frighteningly large cut required.    

See the photo here & be bold.  When she says to sew along the neckline & then follow the sewing line down to the dot & pivot back up; just do it!  But, don't let your stitching lines touch.  When you get to the dot point, make a clean pivot back up.  My lines ran together for a moment just above the pivot point.
If you click on the yellow dress photo above, you can see how that left a little pucked at the bottom of the slit.  This is because, when you clip your seams to prepare to turn the bodice, you must cut all the way down the neck slit.  All the way to the pivot point.  I couldn't quite cut all the way, because I had a couple stitches running in a straight line together, prior to the pivot point.  Oops.  Not a big deal, though.  I just left it.

Next issue with the bodice is the call for sewing a 2 inch band around the base.  I did not get it.  And, decided to forget about it.  I went forward without the band.  And, I am so glad I did.  I love the way it looks without the band.  Maybe it would be cute with a different fabric?  But, with the bands already in the fabric I used in the bodice, it seemed to detract.  Skipped the bodice band.

In keeping with the making the dress into a reversible dress idea, I just ironed the skirt hems to be even with each other (skirt & skirt lining) & hand stitched them together.

The bloomers.  So darn cute and easy.  Amy Butler gives measurements for the elastic.  I would recommend measuring your child, if you can.  Her measurement for the waist band elastic turned out quite loose on my little Mo.  (And I took into account the smallness of my 11 mo old girl by sewing size 6-9 mo, instead of 9-12.)

This dress for a crawler...  maybe not the best match.  One thing is the length.  Long dresses don't always work good for a crawler.  You could shorten it bit, if you want to make it for a crawler.  

The other thing is the shoulder buttons.  (Please note below.  She crawls to me & then pulls herself to standing, catching her foot on the bottom of the dress, hence pulling the snaps at the shoulder.)

My extremely bad choice was to make this dress for a crawler, keep it long and put snaps on the shoulders, instead of a button.  I still think that a long dress with button shoulder connections will be strained too much by a crawler.  But things probably won't get this crazy - 

Oops!  I think she is close to walking.  So, I'll just save it in the closet for the next month or so.

Now, lastly, I will explain the green ribbon.  On the inside & back of the waist band, a small piece of elastic is sewn down to gather that section a bit.  I couldn't figure a way to easily sew this elastic inside the fabric to allow for my dress to still be reversible.  So, I sewed this lovely green grosgrain ribbon around the waist, and over the elastic.  I love the way it turned out.

I do recommend this Amy Butler pattern.  It is really cute.  But, it is lacking in sketches & photos.  Some of us need a little more help picturing things!

The Way She Is

I've been meaning to write some stuff about my eldest daughter.  She is 3 1/2 years old.  She talks most of the time.  If you ask her what her name is, she'll tell you "Gee-in Bythe".  The way that we say that is Gillian Blythe.  

She likes to help around the house & yard.  See her shelling peas.  Her favorite helping job is doing yard work with Daddy, or baking with Mommy.

I've been having a hard time taking good pictures of her lately.  She generally doesn't stop talking.  And, even if she was formerly still, when she sees the camera, she figures an action shot will be best & starts doing something hyper-crazy.  I'm not sure what inspired this dance, other than seeing than the camera.

At the beach yesterday while I was trying to take pictures, she was constantly doing something.  (As her brother was most often pensively watching the goings ons.)  Here she runs excitedly to me, to show me the "lobster plant" she found  

My daughter, Gillian, usually prefers "kid" songs, to most any other music.  It can get tiresome for an adult to listen to only kid music, day after day.  Other than kids songs, she really loves Elton John (Melton John to her)  and Billy Joel.  Here she is singing leave me alone over & over again, from the song, "My Life".

She's a good observer.  She remembers a lot.  I need to watch what I say & all that.  

She asks questions all the time.  She's learning about people being different.  She is always concerned when she sees people without kids.  "Mom, why don't they have kids?!"  I tell her that not everyone has kids.  "Oh! So.  Some people do & some people don't."  That seems to help her.  She states that a lot.  Some people do & some people don't.  It applies to a whole lot of things.

She is a lover of a good paradox.  She tells me, "I'm sick, but I'm not sick".  "That person is patient, but she's not patient."  "I'm tired, but I'm not tired."

If the dogs are smelly from being out in the damp yard, she usually screams like crazy, "Get out of here!  Go away from me, you stinky dogs!  Mom, make them go outside!"

But, sometimes, she doesn't care.  After snuggling with Murphy for a good while, she tells me, "Mom, I still love Murphy, even though he is so smelly."

She is enjoys make believe.  She got a box of Easter treats from Nana.  It included Pez toys.  Gillian has fallen in love with her lamb Pez.  She named her Archeesi.  She talks to her & tells us how Archeesi is feeling & tells Archeesi how much she loves her.  

She likes to play princess & tries to get her brother to be her prince, and dance with her.  

A couple days ago, she was playing something make believe & kept declaring, "It is my destiny!"  

We love our little character!

Forever a Student

It's Monday. Here's my thought on marriage relationships.  Keep learning new things about your spouse.  Don't start believing you know it all!  You can never know everything about someone.  A few weeks back my friend Melissa said that good ways to ignite conversation is to ask a question.  I think that is a great point.

A lot of the time my husband & I may be able to guess what the other one is thinking.  Often one of us will say something, and the other will say, "I was just thinking the same thing!"  And then we'll say something really cheesy & romantic, like, "that's because we are one."  


But, really, the truth is, we can't read each other's minds.  That's good.  Only God knows that much about us.
There will always be something new you can learn about your spouse.  I am sure of it.  Even if your married to someone really boring.

Ask him his opinion.  Ask him stuff about his childhood.  Ask him about his dreams.  Ask him how you can pray for him.  Ask him what excites him.

Sometimes your studying can be silent, too.  You don't need to always ask questions.  That may get annoying if you ask too many questions.  Listening is something that a student needs to do a lot of.  Listen to your spouse.  And learn!

If you want to be positive that there will always be something new to be learnt about you, then keep being a student in all of life.  Be a student of your spouse.  But, be learning other new stuff, too.  That will make you that much broader of a person for your spouse to learn about.  They will have to study you harder.  I think it will make the school of your marriage relationship more exciting.

Alright.  Go do your homework.

Easter Outfits

Taking pictures before we left for church...

I still can't tie the bow tie very well.  It's complicated!  

But, this little tie I made for Easter has little airplanes, helicopters & rockets on it.  Really cute fabric!

Check out Moira's little bloomers!

The skirt I made Gillian is really full, so she loves dancing & twirling in it.  

Moira's face cracks me up!

It was a Happy Easter