Confession - I don't fill in baby books.

I have something to tell you.  My baby Moira, doesn't have a baby book.
Nothing.  I didn't record her firsts.

(Such a bummer)

Peyton has a book.  But, there is very little in there.

To be honest, my recording of Gillian's firsts has not really been that great, either.

Sometimes when I think about it, I feel really guilty.
I wonder if they will be sad about it.
I wonder if I will be sad about it, when they have grown up,
& I don't have a baby book to look back in.
The truth is, memories are not really forever.
We can forget so easily.
And, I really wonder if this is a really bad thing.
I have 3 kids without much baby book stuff recorded.
My baby has nothing.
And, now I have 2 more kids on the way.
(Yes.  That's an announcement!  I am pregnant.  I'm already 16 weeks!
With 1 child.  Plus an adopted child on the way.  With child- two at a time.)

But, then I wonder -
do any of us really care at what date each different baby tooth popped out?
I don't think I care too much.  I hope my kids won't care too much, either.
I want to focus on living & making the memories sweet,
instead of spending my time recording the traditional "firsts".
The "Milestones" are important.
But, I don't really think I care when exactly they happen.
I don't think the date of a milestone is the memory
that I will be wanting to recall when I am old & gray(er).

So, I think I will ditch the traditional baby book idea.
I will get rid of it guilt-free.
And, I will try to record memories that matter to us.
Photos of sweet & funny times.
Home videos where we can hear the patter of the little feet,
and the tininess of the voices.
I want to jot down cute things the kids say.
I want to journal the things that matter to us.
A day in the life of us.
The real stuff.
I think those are the things that will still matter,
when we are all grown up.

How do you record memories?

I am a Sucker

We were at Target yesterday, just for necessities.  

Until we spotted the new Fall clothes for kids.  

I am such a sucker for the sweater dresses & flannel shirts.  

Gillian saw this dress & asked if she could get it.  

She didn't have to beg or whine.  

I couldn't resist.

I got something for all of them.

Whales

The weather was super nice yesterday in Monterey.

Scott & I went Whale Watching!

We also saw a lot of Sea Lions.

They were cute.

But, they were really stinky.  I nearly choked!

We saw two Blue Whales.  Which was incredible.  This one was so close to our boat.

We couldn't really good any cool pictures of him.  He was just huge!

We saw lots & lots of Humpbacks.  

They were fun to watch, as they would bend up from the water often.

They were all around us.  

Here's a bad picture of us.

The Praying Parent - Spontaneous & Purposed

The most important thing we can do for our kids is pray for them.
Don't you think?
What is your approach?  Purposed or spontaneous?
Right now, I don't really have a lot of planned out,
intentional prayer life for my kids.
I want to work on developing that.
I want to write down things to pray for, for each child.
I want to specifically be petitioning for them, for what they need.

Right now, it is generally a spontaneous thing.
"Lord, please give me the right words for her..."
"Please calm her fears"
"Give him patience (Oh, & some patience for me, too!)"

Sometimes a spontaneous prayer is said inside,
sometimes it is aloud.

The other night, we had a sweet meal time prayer,
where Gillian just jumped right in,
praying aloud, right alongside her Daddy.
She had a lot to pray about.  And was eager.
It was really beautiful.
Then Scott asked Peyton if he had anything
he wanted to pray about.
"Yes."  And his prayer was for us to be kind.

I was thanking God for our little blessings.
What a special gift to hear a little one talk to Jesus.

Tell us about your prayer life for your kids.
Do you plan it & how?
Is it usually spontaneous?

This post is written in participation with Walk with Him Wednesday @ Holy Experience

Receiving Love & Giving Love

Remember these?  The flowers my husband gives me?

The plants are bursting with love.

When our cup is being filled up with love, 

it makes it easier to give love away.

Don't you think?

So, I brought these to a friend today.

She is going to pass them on to another friend, later this week.

Jesus gives us love beyond what we can comprehend.

That should help inspire us to give love away.

He'll just refill your cup.

Don't be afraid of running out of His love.

Like A Fruitful Vine

Scott had an incredible amount of concord grapes to harvest today. 

 I can't believe how fruitful his one little vine has been!

The kids were happy to dig in (as was I).

I asked what they wanted for lunch & Gillian said, "Just grapes".  

Our day in general, has seemed rather fruitful.  

We started out with a bit of a bomb, though.  

After we did some general pick up of our sloppy little house, 

we headed out in the car, to try to get a little adventure in, before Moira

completely melted down, in desperate need of a morning nap.

We drove just a few minutes away, where we had seen

a little herd of adorable Alpacas last week.

They had been freshly shorn & were wearing cute little jackets, 

since the days have been chilly.

Alas, we arrived at the little farm this morning & couldn't spot a single Alpaca.  

We sure hope they were just in the barn or something. 

We need to get a close look at them someday soon!

Our plan B was to continue to search for cool animals & drive over to a near by property,

where a few Llamas are kept.

STRANGE.  They also were missing.  

We drive by that field, at a distance, several times a week.

Those llamas are always there.

But, this morning they were not.  

All we got to see was a Llama mailbox.

The kids were still in fairly good spirits.  No screaming.  

Gillian was doing something that sounded a lot like whining to me.

I asked her please to not whine.

She says, "Mom, I'm not whining.  I'm just really frustrated."

Oh.

We got home & Mo took a nap & the rest of us settled in to read 

Little House in the Big Woods.

Both Gillian & Peyton like the book so far.

The attention span didn't get us through a chapter yet.

But, they enjoyed it.

And, they told their dad about the story at lunch time.

Peyton had a hankering to paint all morning.  

So, we did that after lunch.

Gillian painted her first portrait.  

It is her new little birdie toy.

See, it's a pink, big, headed bird.

It has a blue curly feather on the top of its head.

purple eyes, & a blue smile.

The bird is perched on a purple branch.

Peyton's painting is a bunch of bears, who intend to eat Gillian's precious little bird.

I wiped down some of the filthy floor today.  And washed some of my dishes.  

I am making some bread.

Now I think I'll nap!

Shades of Citrus

Tonight's wedding is themed with the colors of Citrus + a splash of blue & gray.

Lemons, Tweedia, Echinops (those cool gray-blue balls), Dahlias, Marigolds, 

Super Green Roses, Yarrow & Mini Gerbera Daisies.

Cults & the "Dark Side"

I've been reading a lot stuff across the web about cults.
And, people who are claiming to reveal the dark side of various doctrines.
I am grieved to see so many Christians who are making it their mission
to point fingers at other Christians.
We need to speak truth & point people to Christ.
Why are so many focused on dragging fellow Christians through the mud?
Is it easier to point the finger at a group of people & call them names,
than "looking to yourself, lest you too be tempted"?

Are the Ezzos "cult" leaders, because they have a large "following"?
Does a church become a cult, because people are hesitant to leave?
Are families cults, if they are tight-knit & value the leadership of the father?
Read this very thoughtful blog post by the Protestant Knight,
calling us to be careful on who we call a cult.
It might just come back around to bite you, too.

What about exposing the "dark side"?
If there are wicked people who abuse & control their children,
and also homeschool them,
does that prove the "dark side" of homeschooling?
If there are wicked men who abuse & treat their wife with condescension,
and also say their are part of the Patriarchy movement,
does that expose a dark side of the doctrine?
If there are child molesters masquerading as priests in the Catholic church,
does that prove a darkness to celibacy?

I would say, "NO"!
I am not saying that I believe all the doctrines or ideas or groups to be correct.
But, are they to blame for people's sin?
People sin & sin wickedly & identify with may different groups & ideas.
We could therefore end up exposing the "dark side" of everything.
Where does it end?  What is the point?
Why don't we just expose untruth & sin?

Be gracious.  Not just to a person's face.  But also online.
Remember that what you write online, can't be taken back.